Valuing others over ourselves requires us first to value something more than our own needs. To simply value others is arguably impossible due to our selfish nature. To value others requires us to value something more than ourselves. Valuing God and what God wants is a great place to start. Valuing the idea of being contrary to what feels good to us or what is natural to us is another option. Valuing what is right over what is comfortable also work.
Lord, help me to value something other than my own selfishness so I can value others.