Temptation. It can be seen a problem or it can be seen as "the opportunity to do the right thing". Failure. It can be seen as a problem or it can be seen as "an opportunity to learn and grow". Fear. It can be seen as troubling or as "an opportunity to trust". Commandment. They can be seen as limiting our fun or as God protecting us from ourselves.
Lord, help me to see things from your perfect perspective and not my flawed view.