Fact: We will mourn.
Fact: We will be blessed.
Fact: We will be comforted.
Fact: We will act surprised when stuff happens and we will resist the advice to seek God for His comfort and peace until we find no other solution and/or time doesn't pass fast enough for us to forget our pain.
Lord, thank You for not keeping life a secret and help me to not be so stubborn or resistant to Your help.