I have never quite understood the human need or desire to talk about others or be "all up in another's business". Don't we have enough going on in our own lives to deal with that we don't need to be judging or criticizing what others are thinking or doing or not thinking or not doing? We need to take care of our own business and then spend any discretionary time we may have helping others and not "assessing" their every thought and action that doesn't gel with how we would do it.
Lord, help me to take care of my stuff and not feel the need to ignore my issues by spending unfruitful time sticking my nose in other's lives.