As the famous quote says ... "To err is human, to blame others is even more human". I may have taken some liberties on that quote (sorry Alexander Pope). but I may not be far off from the truth. When things don't go our way, it is much easier to point fingers at others than to look at ourselves to see where we have responsibility. Responsibility is spelled with three "I"s in it and no "U"s. That should be a reminder that "I" need to look at my responsibility first, before pointing my finger at "You" and blaming you for lack of responsibility.