"You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink". You can even push the horses head into the water and hold it there for a long time and some horses would rather drown than drink. There are those who drink right away, and unfortunately, there are those who choose to drown. And then there is a vast majority who either stare at the water in hopes it will turn into something more attractive (or consumable) or more likely, those who allow there head to be stuck in the water for a long period of time to finally give up and drink and then realize that they lost a lot of time and experienced more trauma than required. What is your 'water' today and what is keeping you from drinking?