"Hi, I just burnt down your house and wrecked your car. I never liked you. I never will. Can you do me a favor ... ?" Sometimes that is what I feel it sounds like to God when we come to Him and ask for help and for things we want before we apologize for all of the bad stuff we have done to Him and to those He loves.
Lord, I am sorry for not behaving and for not obeying, and I am also sorry for thinking that Your unconditional love for me makes it okay for me to not apologize and ask for forgiveness.